{"id":1407,"date":"2017-06-27T09:31:16","date_gmt":"2017-06-27T09:31:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/?p=1407"},"modified":"2017-06-27T09:37:26","modified_gmt":"2017-06-27T09:37:26","slug":"my-familys-slave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/?p=1407","title":{"rendered":"My Family\u2019s Slave"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">She lived with us for 56 years. She raised me and my siblings without pay. I was 11, a typical American kid, before I realized who she was.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/1920.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1408\" src=\"http:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/1920.jpg\" alt=\"1920\" width=\"1000\" height=\"563\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/1920.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/1920-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/1920-199x112.jpg 199w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"dropcap\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><span class=\"smallcaps\">She ashes filled<\/span>\u00a0a black plastic box about the size of a toaster. It weighed three and a half pounds. I put it in a canvas tote bag and packed it in my suitcase this past July for the transpacific flight to Manila. From there I would travel by car to a rural village. When I arrived, I would hand over all that was left of the woman who had spent 56 years as a slave in my family\u2019s household.<\/span><\/p>\n<aside class=\"callout\" data-omni-click=\"r'article',r' ',d,r'related',#data-omni-index,@data-article-id\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Her name was Eudocia Tomas Pulido. We called her Lola. She was 4 foot 11, with mocha-brown skin and almond eyes that I can still see looking into mine\u2014my first memory.<\/span><\/aside>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1409\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1409\" style=\"width: 620px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Bildschirmfoto-2017-06-27-um-11.21.30.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1409\" src=\"http:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Bildschirmfoto-2017-06-27-um-11.21.30.png\" alt=\"Lola Pulido (shown on the left at age 18) came from a poor family in a rural part of the Philippines. The author\u2019s grandfather \u201cgave\u201d her to his daughter as a gift. \" width=\"630\" height=\"357\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Bildschirmfoto-2017-06-27-um-11.21.30.png 630w, https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Bildschirmfoto-2017-06-27-um-11.21.30-300x170.png 300w, https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Bildschirmfoto-2017-06-27-um-11.21.30-199x113.png 199w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 630px) 100vw, 630px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1409\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Lola Pulido (shown on the left at age 18) came from a poor family in a rural part of the Philippines. The author\u2019s grandfather \u201cgave\u201d her to his daughter as a gift.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">She was 18 years old when my grandfather gave her to my mother as a gift, and when my family moved to the United States, we brought her with us. No other word but\u00a0<i>slave<\/i>\u00a0encompassed the life she lived. Her days began before everyone else woke and ended after we went to bed. She prepared three meals a day, cleaned the house, waited on my parents, and took care of my four siblings and me. My parents never paid her, and they scolded her constantly. She wasn\u2019t kept in leg irons, but she might as well have been. So many nights, on my way to the bathroom, I\u2019d spot her sleeping in a corner, slumped against a mound of laundry, her fingers clutching a garment she was in the middle of folding. (All words by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/magazine\/archive\/2017\/06\/a-reporters-story\/524538\/\" target=\"_blank\">Alex Tizon<\/a>, published in <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/magazine\/archive\/2017\/06\/lolas-story\/524490\" target=\"_blank\">The Atlantic<\/a><\/strong>)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\">Read the story on:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/magazine\/archive\/2017\/06\/lolas-story\/524490\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/magazine\/archive\/2017\/06\/lolas-story\/524490<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1411\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1411\" style=\"width: 215px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/magazine\/archive\/2017\/06\/lolas-story\/524490\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1411\" src=\"http:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/original-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"Cover, A Story of Slavery in Modern America, The Atlantic, June 2017\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/original-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/original-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/original-149x199.jpg 149w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1411\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Cover, A Story of Slavery in Modern America, The Atlantic, June 2017<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><strong>Alex Tizon<\/strong> passed away in March. He was a Pulitzer Prize\u2013winning journalist and the author of\u00a0Big Little Man: In Search of My Asian Self. For more about Alex, please see\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/magazine\/archive\/2017\/06\/a-reporters-story\/524538\/\" data-omni-click=\"r'article',r'link',r'2',r'524490'\">this editor\u2019s note<\/a><\/span>.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She lived with us for 56 years. She raised me and my siblings without pay. I was 11, a typical American kid, before I realized who she was. She ashes filled\u00a0a black plastic box about the size of a toaster. It weighed three and a half pounds. 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