{"id":1094,"date":"2015-07-21T09:59:03","date_gmt":"2015-07-21T09:59:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/?p=1094"},"modified":"2015-07-21T09:59:03","modified_gmt":"2015-07-21T09:59:03","slug":"pakistan-moonies-daugther","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/?p=1094","title":{"rendered":"Pakistan: Moonie&#8217;s daugther"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_1095\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1095\" style=\"width: 990px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wmarijnissen.photoshelter.com\/gallery\/Every-woman-counts\/G0000lHXxmEyGmLs\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1095 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/moonie1.jpg\" alt=\"moonie1\" width=\"1000\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/moonie1.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/moonie1-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/moonie1-199x100.jpg 199w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1095\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Wendy Marijnissen<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; font-family: Georgia, Palatino; color: #000000;\">The sad fact is that a huge number of women and babies are still dying unneccesarily in Pakistan\u00a0due to lack of proper healthcare infrastructure, lack of skilled staff, use of traditional customs by dai, remoteness of their village, etc.\u00a0During this trip, I\u2019m staying with my host family, who all are doctors, mostly gynecologists, and who have been my guide and support in the past years. The experience is and has been heartwarming so far and gave me a totally different view on life here. You become a part of the household and slowly start to get to know the whole family and the staff working here. And the fun thing is that everyone starts to get to know me too.\u00a0Moonie, our cook, for instance knows of my addiction to the incredibly tasty Pakistani mango by now and with love sets the table and cuts a piece of this delicious fruit for me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; color: #000000;\">8 days ago though, after breakfast when we were trying to communicate in our simple way, as we both don\u2019t speak each others languages, she was called outside. A family member had come bearing bad news that something happened to her daughter in Hyderabad and that she had to come immediately. Returning in the house,\u00a0<strong>I saw the shock and fear in her eyes as she scrambled to get her things together.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1096\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1096\" style=\"width: 990px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/wmarijnissen.photoshelter.com\/gallery\/Every-woman-counts\/G0000lHXxmEyGmLs\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1096 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/moonie2.jpg\" alt=\"moonie2\" width=\"1000\" height=\"333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/moonie2.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/moonie2-300x100.jpg 300w, https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/moonie2-199x66.jpg 199w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1096\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Wendy Marijnissen<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Palatino; font-size: 10pt;\">Later that day I heard the awful news that her daughter, who was 7 months pregnant from her 3rd baby, suffered complications\u00a0during her pregnancy and\u00a0<strong>both mother and baby died<\/strong>\u2026\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Palatino; font-size: 10pt;\">Last week, while I was sitting on the terrace reading the newspaper, I saw Moonie returning to the house.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Palatino; font-size: 10pt;\">I followed her in, where we hugged each other. It was an intense and devastating hug, Moonie crying from the depth of her soul\u2026<\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Palatino; font-size: 10pt;\">Feeling her pain, I couldn\u2019t stop my tears either\u2026 For the first time in all these years, with seeing and experiencing many upsetting moments, this time\u00a0<strong>it really hit home and became real and very personal<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Palatino; font-size: 10pt;\">The numbers of maternal deaths that pop up in various rapports by ngo\u2019s all of a sudden got new meaning, as\u00a0<strong>one of these numbers now is Moonie\u2019s daughter.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Palatino; font-size: 10pt;\">In this moment I feel utterly helpless\u2026 I\u2019m not able to do anything for Moonie, I\u2019m not even able to communicate and tell her how sorry I am.<\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Palatino; font-size: 10pt;\">Yet I hope that all the work I\u2019ve been doing here, will make a difference in the coming years, will educate people about the situation here and will slowly\u00a0<strong>improve the conditions in which women give birth<\/strong>\u00a0here.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Palatino;\">Wendy Marijnissen is a freelance documentary photographer from Belgium, based in Karachi, Pakistan. For the last\u00a0<span style=\"color: #993300;\"><a style=\"color: #993300;\" href=\"http:\/\/wendymarijnissen.us2.list-manage2.com\/track\/click?u=46e45d7dfa7fb162d172cf537&amp;id=227e5a33b3&amp;e=a5c14313b4\" target=\"_blank\">7 years she has been working on photographing maternal health stories in Pakistan<\/a><\/span>.\u00a0<\/span>She was also a finalist for the Fotovisura Grant for Outstanding Personal photography project 2010 and received a honourable mention at the Photocrati Fund 2011 grant with her work \u2018Every woman counts\u2019. Her\u00a0work has appeared in media like Le Monde, Arte, De Standaard, and L&#8217;Express. Follow her work on\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #800000; text-decoration: underline;\"><a style=\"color: #800000; text-decoration: underline;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.wendymarijnissen.com\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.wendymarijnissen.com<\/a>.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The sad fact is that a huge number of women and babies are still dying unneccesarily in Pakistan\u00a0due to lack of proper healthcare infrastructure, lack of skilled staff, use of traditional customs by dai, remoteness of their village, etc.\u00a0During this trip, I\u2019m staying with my host family, who all are doctors, mostly gynecologists, and who &#8230; <a title=\"Pakistan: Moonie&#8217;s daugther\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/?p=1094\" aria-label=\"Mehr Informationen \u00fcber Pakistan: Moonie&#8217;s daugther\">Weiterlesen<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1094"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1094"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1094\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1100,"href":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1094\/revisions\/1100"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1094"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1094"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/asiajournalist.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1094"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}